Valentine’s Day has always been a date that has generated controversy between its admirers and its detractors. Today, in this post, we want to give you our point of view on why it is a good idea to celebrate it.
Over the years, numerous scientists have tried to answer how to have a long relationship that is satisfying for both parties and, above all, that provides happiness.
One of the scientists who tried to answer this question was the psychologist Stemberg who based the keys to love on the union of passion, intimacy and commitment, and came to the conclusion that the lack of one of these three fundamental pillars it would be a foretaste of the failure of the relationship and, it is at this point, when the following question arises:
¿What way is there to keep these pillars standing?
We know that today’s life, and the saturation in terms of activities in which to invest our time and, above all, reconcile it with work life, significantly reduces the quantity and quality of time we dedicate to our partners. At the same time that the time together is reduced, the activities aimed at caring for and strengthening our feelings for the person with whom we are sharing our life are reduced. That is why we agree to celebrate Valentine’s Day, but not celebrate it with material gifts that can be forgotten, but rather we believe that it is a day to share time, experiences and generate positive emotions in our partner. as?
- With a bouquet of your favorite flowers and a card to remind you of our feelings for him/her
- With an experience that you know your partner can value and that they don’t dare, or that you don’t dare but you know that seeing them happy overcomes your fears: bungee jumping, skydiving, a balloon ride, etc.,
- A dinner where you have cooked his favorite food and spent time making him happy.
But our Valentine’s proposal is the gift of your time
The time we have is finite, one day it will come to an end and, therefore, we believe that it is the most valuable thing you can give your partner.
In today’s post we want to offer you a romantic getaway in our cabins to cultivate your relationship in a cabin between the forest and the vineyard, so that you remember what you like about each other, that you take advantage of the silence of our environment and improve your communication, appreciate the small moments together in privacy that our unique accommodations provide, have the opportunity to free yourself from the stress of everyday life while you immerse yourself in the bubbles of the jacuzzi, or tint our terraces with color with their lights.
In short, we believe that Valentine’s Day is a date to dedicate to our partner, one day a year to reinforce the decision to be together, a day to forget about the little stressors of the routine and enjoy the love you have for each other.